It's not that I have a problem with getting girls, it's just I get shy around girls who I actually like. Before this most of the girls in my life have only been looking for a free gram, a ride in the Cadillac or chasing a dollar. This is one of few girls who I feel actually likes me and I like her.
There you go again "This is one of few girls who I feel actually likes me and I like her. " being shy doesn't matter being yourself is whats shes liked about you and guess what its been working out. Nothing against Jenksz I don't think that a book will change you into someone else... Whats worked out for me is
Always have something to say when you are around them. It doesnt have to be the most refined statements that you have to make, but anything simple will start a conversation. If not sure, ask every day questions and you will get an answer. That may lead you to asking another question and you get another answer. Probably then you too will be asked and you answer back. By and by, you will realise that you are warm with this person or persons and the shyness will become history. :-)
but she likes you for who you are just get closer and you will feel the same connection.
My methods don't change who I am. They just teach me right and wrong things to say in certain situations to maximize game.